It’s difficult to organize thoughts this morning after the election, but I have been getting some thoughtful words on Facebook and from friends that I think are important to express right now. In discussion with a friend I was saying how Trump was never really successful at anything in life and his success is built solely on the illusion of his brand. My friend responded “well isn’t that a sign of success?” As much as it hurt to admit I think he’s right. He has sold America an illusion, and America bought it. He isn’t going to build a wall, he can’t bring coal jobs back, he isn’t going to magically fix inner cities, he isn’t going to make America great again. Especially consider nobody really knows what that means, and how we define greatness is highly subjective. We went on to discuss this illusion and how Trump’s illusion is really America’s. Once again I couldn’t help but agree. I’ve been mulling this thought over for a few hours and really makes sense.
America has branded itself over the years. The country that can’t fail. The country that does it right, and that other countries should look to as a model of freedom and democracy. We sell the American Dream, and people believe in it, even though we have been struggling to deliver that for some time. And when I say we’ve bought into it, I am talking about all of us to varying degrees. We’ve even convinced many people outside the U.S. that this is the case. But it is an illusion as grand as the Trump brand. We aren’t perfect and we’ve got a lot of problems. There are other countries out there who are doing things better than we are. We spend more time convincing other countries that we are the strongest and the best, and less time giving our own people something substantive to believe this is the case. Obama called us the greatest nation on Earth. Where is the humility? Hillary referred to half of the voting population as deplorables. How extreme is that righteousness? Those of us who see behind the veil of Trump’s brand to what he really is, convinced ourselves that there would be no way Trump could be elected. I included. As a nation we have made some great progress at social justice and equality, but we’ve also let far too many people fall into poverty, we had some poorly executed and designed policy, even if well-intentioned. We’ve made some terrible foreign policy decisions that has cost us money and lives. And all these things are excusable, but we also refuse to admit it. Why? Because we are the greatest nation on Earth.
I believe that to earn that title, we need to have empathy, we need to have courage, and we need to have humility. We also need to have honest introspection. We have to create our sense of self-worth over substantive matters. We have to demonstrate that we are as capable of celebrating our successes as well as admitting and learning from our failures. These are the values that make for great people, and great nations. I’m not sure any nation can be said to be there, but some are closer than others. We have further to go than we’d like to believe, and I hope that in these next 4 years we can break through this illusion and find a way to heal a divided nation. Democrats are just as guilty as Republicans for not reaching across the aisle. That’s the beginning of the humility we all need to have. All of us regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation are human. That’s the love we need to have. And then we have to ask “How can I live my life so that it helps raise all humans up?” That’s the courage we need to have. And we need to keep at these qualities, everyday of our life, because hate, self-righteousness, and fear are always with us, waiting to shake us fragile humans to our core.